Tuesday, 6 February 2018
2018 Bella Italia: 'Sublime and the Sacred'
Thursday, 18 January 2018
Connecting Spirits 2017 Community Tour: Looking back number 3
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| Donna Handke at Rufus Rigney's grave 2004- the Connecting Spirits journey begins |
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| Belgian television covered the Harelebeke ceremony with Donna 2004 |
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| Donna leads the inaugural 2006 CS tour : seen here with Chloe Oborn who returned to the battlefields as a joint Youth Leader with Flo Bourke in 2008 |
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| Coverage of the 2008 Connecting Spirits ceremony at the grave of Rufus Rigney. |
| 2008 - Donna with underground WW1 expert Johan Vandewalle. Donna is wearing her Ngarrindjeri shirt with pride. 2008 - 2010 : Flo Bourke and Chloe Oborn
Chloe and Donna share a commemoration in 2008
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| Flo Bourke |
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Add Mollie Sandercok and Tamika Williams departing on the 2015 tour. |
Friday, 12 January 2018
Connecting Spirits Community Tour 2017: Looking back ...number 2
Thursday, 28 December 2017
Connecting Spirits Community Tour 2017: looking back...(number 1)
And finally as our group traversed the former battlefields, the poetry of the day from various poets was shared. The following poem by soldier and poet Siegfried Sassoon, 'On passing the Menin Gate', is a powerful and erudite account of this extraordinary W.W.1 memorial.
Lest We Forget....
| On Passing the New Menin Gate, by Siegfried Sassoon | ||
Who will remember, passing through this Gate,
The unheroic Dead who fed the guns? Who shall absolve the foulness of their fate, - Those doomed, conscripted, unvictorious ones? Crudely renewed, the Salient holds its own. Paid are its dim defenders by this pomp; Paid, with a pile of peace-complacent stone, The armies who endured that sullen swamp.
Here was the world's worst wound. And here with pride
'Their name liveth for evermore' the Gateway claims. Was ever an immolation so belied As these intolerably nameless names? Well might the Dead who struggled in the slime Rise and deride this sepulchre of crime. |
SOURCES: CWGC website & Last Post Association website
PHOTOS: Taken by Julie Reece
Monday, 27 November 2017
Connecting Spirits ...80 years on brother and sister reunited
In 2011 I ran my first adult battlefields tour in the first year of my retirement from a long career in the classroom. A random meeting at a small Adelaide hills school just a few weeks prior to departure, would introduce me to a wonderful woman Jo Kirlew, who would become one of my dearest friends. We were both doing a day of relief teaching and at recess we started chatting. The conversation came around to what we were both up to and when I told Jo about my Connecting Spirits tour, she became very emotional. She recounted the story of her grandfather Walter Kirlew who was killed on the first day of the Battle of the Somme. I suggested that I include a visit to Walter's grave on her behalf and from that point a very special story and friendship unfolded. At Walter's grave in Fricourt a few weeks later, I read out the words that Jo wanted to share about her lost grandfather and as we always do with our Connecting Spirits commemorations, small tributes and messages were left at the grave. One card had my email address on it and this created a whole new chapter for us both.
I was contacted by a man from the UK who was also related to Walter, a relative Jo knew nothing of. Jo soon joined the next tour group and made her own pilgrimage to France. Here the story took yet another turn.
The two distant relatives met in Somerset, the home of Jo's family and a very poignant discovery was made by the two second cousins. Jo learnt from Alan that her father Joe Kirlew had been married before he married Jo's mother and there had been a little baby son born to the couple...a half brother Jo had no knowledge of. Both the mother and the newborn tragically died in childbirth and were buried in an unmarked grave in Hull cemetery. Jo visited that grave on yet another one of her tours and saw for the first time the resting place of her baby half brother she never knew. On her return home, Jo arranged for a special plaque to be made for the grave in Hull and today she will return once more to complete the circle of this special Connecting Spirits journey. On Wednesday this week we meet up with the 2017 Connecting Spirits Community tour group to share more emotional and significant moments with a new CS family. Stay tuned for our recounts as once more my friend Jo Kirlew will stand at the grave of her grandfather Walter Kirlew.














