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Sunday, 1 May 2022

The Eglinton brothers : the family looks back...

 

To conclude the dedication to the Woodside Brothers in Arms, one of the relatives of the three Eglinton brothers who died in WW1, has written a final tribute. Thank you, Michael Lucas, for this heartfelt piece from his family’s perspective and for filling in some of the gaps of the public official records.

THE EGLINTON BROTHERS

Five enlisted only two returned

How quickly we forget. Although the Ode does implore us, those who remain to remember, our family has forgotten. My wife is a direct descendant of an Eglinton. A search through our family archives, which is unfortunately very sparse, has not revealed any evidence of the story of the Eglinton Brothers.

The five Eglinton Brothers were the nephews of our Eglinton ancestor, James, and the Grandson’s of William. James and William were the first publicans of Terowie in the Mid North of SA. At the time it was a bustling railway town, where the trains were changed to suit the NSW gauge, en- route to Broken Hill. William died in 1891, and James took on the licence. He then served as publican for several of the prominent hotels in Adelaide including the Maid and Magpie, Magill Road, the Arab Steed Hutt Street and the Semaphore Hotel. Unfortunately, there is little mention of the farm in Terowrie or the family in Forest Range.

An interesting side note is that William married Elizabeth Forrest, whose brother, Alexander, was my direct ancestor. Thus my wife and I have a common ancestor six generations in the past.

Yes, there were five brothers who enlisted to serve in World War One. The other two, John Charles and Wilfred Rowe returned to Australia. Wilfred Rowe was severely injured during grenade practice and was medically discharge in Dec. 1917. After the death of the second brother, Clarence Roy, the eldest brother, John Charles applied to Ministry for a compassionate discharge. He wrote to his younger brother, Thomas William, to support the appeal. Thomas wrote in support, but the appeal was declined. Tragically, Thomas was killed shortly after writing the letter. Upon learning of the death of his brother, John Charles re-applied. This time the Ministry agreed and he was discharged on 8 November 1918. Ten days before the end of the war.

Back to the reflection. Reading the accounts of the three brothers, I am moved to tears. Having read and reflected on the letters written by mothers, granting permission for their sons to serve, only to receive the tragic news of the death of the same son six months later. Then to read these letters appealing to the Ministry to allow one of the five Eglinton brothers to return to work on their farm, was heart wrenching.

This does make you wonder what might have been, but that would be futile. This same story is probably repeated during all of the conflicts that Australians have served. And now we have a memorial for all of the brothers that served as a point of focus for our reflections

The hotels and farms have been disposed of, and the family has dispersed throughout Australia. And then to return to the initial thesis. They will not grow old and we shall remember. Even if the story has been lost to the family, the names appear on memorials in South Australia and on the Western Front. As long as one person reads the name and stops to reflect on what has been, they will be remembered, their memory will not die.

MICHAEL LUCAS, Relative of the Eglinton brothers.


Photo credit: Julie Reece:  Anzac Day 2022